Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Top Ten tips to help your marriage or relationship work.

1) Just say that you are sorry. This helps more times than not for people to stop fighting and make peace. By trying to understand the other person's problem and saying sorry, you will be on the path towards reconciliation and solving the dispute.

2)Don't worry about the little things. Starting an arguement over little things will just cause aggravate a relationship.

3) Do nice things for the other person. By doing things like making a meal or doing the chores without being asked, your partner will notice and appreciate it.

4) Be honest with your spouse. Telling your partner about your problems is what the relationship's all about.

5)Appreciate your spouse. Just be glad you have somebody. Many people aren't so lucky.

6)Be forgiving of mistakes. While it is good to express your feelings about a situation, remember that to err is human, to forgive divine.

7) Don't wait to talk about things. Talking about a problem in the marriage from the beginning will help it to resolve rather than get bigger.

8)Talk about money and make sure you both agree about what kind of financial situation you want in the future.

9)Take a vacation with just your spouse so you can really get to know what your partner wants and reconnect.

10)Make time for the other person. Talk about things daily and about your hopes and dreams and discover how you and your partner's dreams can become reality together!